May I interest you in a Hug?

May I interest you in a hug?

I might not mouth it but that does not imply that I don’t want it. I want it so bad that if you cared for me that’s all you would do for me. I’m desperate like that. But we are all after our own desires and I don’t expect people to hover around me to fulfill mine. They are way too many. You can try. Give a girl a little sugar and I’ll make milk and honey in return. Hug me when you see me. I’m a sucker for hugs. I crave them. They are so freaking good. If you get them from the right people, there aren’t do many anymore.Goddamn! I’m in the mood already..

Some weird people label themselves non huggers. I swear they hug you so clumsily you think they want to break you. These kind of humans want to depict the London bridge hence the name of the hug. You don’t need to go to London to see the monument. They bring London to you. They don’t want contact. They are afraid of what it might do to them. They want to seem unattached and strong. They don’t know the healing that comes along with the bodies of two people coming together. It’s magical. I’m a hugger and if you can’t get it right with me it pisses me off. I love obtaining absolute pleasure. There should be no loose ends.

A hug can work wonders for you. Turn your whole world around. It’s therapy, you just haven’t thought of it that way.

• It’s a stress reliever.
• It reduces depression.
• Releases oxytocin hormone (this hormone helps you in feeling good, you know psyche).
• Improves your general health especially the heart.
• Boosts your immunity.

It also triggers dopamine which is a hormone responsible for sexual desire (the next time you want to go at it with your partner, start them off with a hug. It will be a win-win. I promise 😉)

Everyone says that they want the best for the future generations yet children are born day in day out and what do we do? We don’t hug these ‘generations’. When is this future? And how will it ever be better if these kids are not well nurtured from when they are young? Instead we decide that voting different leaders is what will make that future a haven for them. Wrong!It is hugs. They feel love from a tender age. They are likely to become more social individuals as all their troubles were settled at the right time. Kindly hug your offspring.

Two years back, I met Richard. He walked up to me and was asking about some housing around where I worked. I directed him to my brother and I thought that was that. Richard came the next day and the other then the rest. We talked for long periods of time. If I was ever caught I would have lost my job. It wasn’t mere small talk. It was deep insightful talk and we shared ideas. All those days there was no contact between us, we would talk and he would leave. Then one day I told him I was leaving for school and wouldn’t be working anymore. Then came in the hug.. That wasn’t my longest hug but I felt like it lasted a lifetime. There were no words spoken. I don’t know how to put it in words. Simply indescribable. I might have had an orgasm from it. Or two.

Feelings might have been building up from the day we had started talking. I believe in mutual coexistence. I can’t like you and you don’t, we have to both so. I was glad to learn that night that he had felt what I felt (none of us could talk after that hug, if we did then there would definitely be more to the story😂😂). I understood then that hugs might erupt feelings unknown to us. Long after we dismiss their being in us. Careful who you hug and how you do it. Your ending might be better than mine.

Nowadays as soon as I meet someone new, I hug them to avoid unexpected feelings to come in later on. It’s as simple as that. I confirm everything there and then. I don’t like surprises really. Your hugging says a lot about you. Make it better.

There was this friend of mine I used to hug back in high school. And people watched. And questioned. They couldn’t understand why we hugged too tightly and for that long. I’m sure lesbianism passed the minds of those who saw us. We were in a connection none of them felt. It was just the two of us. We know what those hugs did to and for us. That’s another thing about hugs, they are private. Confidential even. You speak without really speaking and whoever is on the other end understands you completely.

I have my to go to guy now for hugs (I won’t mention him because he’ll be feeling himself and I don’t want him to know I’m using him for those hugs😎). I’m in love with the hug of you, only. I’m mean and I know it.

When I grow up(if I ever get a man enough to marry me, preferably a chef🙌😝), I want my kids to come running to me and close in for a hug once I get home from work. All my days trouble will be erased I know. Kids hugging you are the best thing ever. Maybe it’s my obsession with kids or it could overall be a fact. Try it sometime? Don’t huggies babies love huggies mums😍😄

Today is my dad’s birthday (I have several dads 👌) and he’s clocking 40 something years. These men don’t want us knowing their ages no more. I didn’t get to hug him in the morning before he left for work but when he returns, I’ll hug the aging out of him. He deserves a better hug than the one I gave him last night.

Happy Birthday Dad Ramadhan!